The Answer to the Question Every Red-Blooded Male Has Asked Himself...

....is She interested?

Don't you just hate walking around not knowing whether or not that special girl is interested? With a basic understanding of Body Language you don't have to! I'll now give you 7 free pointers to look for the next time you encounter that gorgeous young lady.

- Are her feet pointed towards you when sitting down or standing up?
You're probably scratching your head right about now and wondering why the hell I'm talking about her feet when you're only thinking about her p***y. Well, stop it you Perv! As a matter of fact, women tend to like guys who care about more than one thing. So the next time you're standing in a group conversation, look at where the womens feet are turned. This will probably be the person that they find the most interesting. This should of course be you, silly. ;)

- Is she gently caressing herself or an object?
Now, I'm not talking about pulling or pinching, if you get that response you are definetely not hot stuff. If, on the other hand, she's caressing or gently touching something or herself or an object, then that's her subconcious telling you what she want's you to do with her.

- Is she touching her hair or stroking it?
This is something that women do to focus your attention towards it. Why do you think women spend 100's of dollars getting new hair-styles and using hair products? Because hair is a symbol of virility, and when she's touching it in front of you than this is a tell-tale sign that she's interested in you.

- Are her pupils more dilated than usual?
Now, I know you're probably thinking; "How the hell am I supposed to know how dilated pupils normally are?!" Don't sweat it, you'll probably get a pretty good intuition for that once you've started noticing the pupil size. What the dilated pupils show is that she's reacting positively to the stimulus (YOU), and it's literally her wanting to take more of you in. Keep in mind that the pupil also dilates in darker places and contracts in light, so merely looking at the pupils won't always give a straight answer.

- Is she "coincidentally" showing up around you?
If you're at a party, in class or at any larger gathering of people and she suddenly is everywhere, then that probably isn't a funny coincidence after all. If you suddenly see her everywhere you turn or her walking past you for the 8th time, you should pull your head out of your ass and go talk to her. When her subconcious has telegraphed interest in such an overt way, you can bet she won't give you the cold shoulder.

- Does she maintain eye-contact for longer periods of time than normal?
This one might seem extremely basic, but you'd be surprised how many people ignore this simple fact! Longer periods of time in this case is more than 1-2 seconds, which is normal when not speaking. When you're having a conversation with her, longer eye-contact than 1-2 seconds is normal, so don't get all horny and excited just yet!

- Does she smile or laugh more than usual when speaking to/in the presence of you?
Again, this is pretty basic, I know, but also one of the most important keys to finding out whether or not she is interested. If she's smiling and laughing while maintaining eye-contact, then you know there's some serious attraction going. Good for you, man.

That's all I have time for today folks, but check back, I'll be updating the blog with more 100% fool proof interest indicators!

Yours Truly,

The Body Language Connoisseur.