What Every Woman Should Know About Male Body Language

Alrighty then, I'm back with a new update for you guys. This time I'm going to talk a bit about what body language men send out when they're interested, so listen up ladies! In this article I'll describe some of the most common interest indicators, and also describe the thoughts behind them. Don't miss out on this valuable insight into the mind of a man!

There are several different body language signals that men use, and they all communicate slightly different meanings. Is he:

• Pointing towards genitalia or otherwise drawing attention to the crotch

This one is a no-brainer ladies, his subconscious is obviously showing off the very essence of his masculinity. This is a sign that is used by men who are pretty overtly sexual who often fall into what you could call the Badboy-category, so don't expect to see this on a mama's boy or a nice-guy.

• Standing with his hands to his hips and broadening his shoulders

The width of a mans shoulders is generally seen as an indication of masculinity, and studies have shown that men with higher percentage of testosterone has broader shoulder compared to their hips, than other men. By standing in such a manner a man is accentuating his masculinity, and showing off to a potential partner (lucky you) just how virile and manly he is.

• Adjusting clothing or hair

This is also pretty basic, if a man sees a woman he is attracted to he will probably do what he can to look his best, so if he's adjusting his tie or fixing his hair when he's walking past you in the hall you just might have a possible suitor on your hands.

• He holds your gaze longer than usual

When a man is interested, he certainly wants his chosen lady to notice him, and what better way to do this than to hold her gaze for an extra couple of seconds? This one is in my experience one of the most certain ways you can tell if another person is interested, and if you combine this with the observation of a couple of dilated pupils he's all yours.

• His head tilts a little to the side when you speak

If a man is tilting his head while listening to what you say, chances are you have a man who A) is very genuinely interested in what you have to say, or B) has knowledge of body language and knows how to fake it. If you think option A) is the one that fits your guy then congratulations, you might have found yourself a keeper, but if option B) seems more likely than you just might have something as uncommon as an educated player on your hands.

That's all folks, I'll be updating this section when I get some extra time. Don't forget to leave a comment if you enjoyed this piece of writing! ;)

Yours Truly,

The Body Language Connoisseur.

The Answer to the Question Every Red-Blooded Male Has Asked Himself...

....is She interested?

Don't you just hate walking around not knowing whether or not that special girl is interested? With a basic understanding of Body Language you don't have to! I'll now give you 7 free pointers to look for the next time you encounter that gorgeous young lady.

- Are her feet pointed towards you when sitting down or standing up?
You're probably scratching your head right about now and wondering why the hell I'm talking about her feet when you're only thinking about her p***y. Well, stop it you Perv! As a matter of fact, women tend to like guys who care about more than one thing. So the next time you're standing in a group conversation, look at where the womens feet are turned. This will probably be the person that they find the most interesting. This should of course be you, silly. ;)

- Is she gently caressing herself or an object?
Now, I'm not talking about pulling or pinching, if you get that response you are definetely not hot stuff. If, on the other hand, she's caressing or gently touching something or herself or an object, then that's her subconcious telling you what she want's you to do with her.

- Is she touching her hair or stroking it?
This is something that women do to focus your attention towards it. Why do you think women spend 100's of dollars getting new hair-styles and using hair products? Because hair is a symbol of virility, and when she's touching it in front of you than this is a tell-tale sign that she's interested in you.

- Are her pupils more dilated than usual?
Now, I know you're probably thinking; "How the hell am I supposed to know how dilated pupils normally are?!" Don't sweat it, you'll probably get a pretty good intuition for that once you've started noticing the pupil size. What the dilated pupils show is that she's reacting positively to the stimulus (YOU), and it's literally her wanting to take more of you in. Keep in mind that the pupil also dilates in darker places and contracts in light, so merely looking at the pupils won't always give a straight answer.

- Is she "coincidentally" showing up around you?
If you're at a party, in class or at any larger gathering of people and she suddenly is everywhere, then that probably isn't a funny coincidence after all. If you suddenly see her everywhere you turn or her walking past you for the 8th time, you should pull your head out of your ass and go talk to her. When her subconcious has telegraphed interest in such an overt way, you can bet she won't give you the cold shoulder.

- Does she maintain eye-contact for longer periods of time than normal?
This one might seem extremely basic, but you'd be surprised how many people ignore this simple fact! Longer periods of time in this case is more than 1-2 seconds, which is normal when not speaking. When you're having a conversation with her, longer eye-contact than 1-2 seconds is normal, so don't get all horny and excited just yet!

- Does she smile or laugh more than usual when speaking to/in the presence of you?
Again, this is pretty basic, I know, but also one of the most important keys to finding out whether or not she is interested. If she's smiling and laughing while maintaining eye-contact, then you know there's some serious attraction going. Good for you, man.

That's all I have time for today folks, but check back, I'll be updating the blog with more 100% fool proof interest indicators!

Yours Truly,

The Body Language Connoisseur.